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The Solopreneurship Paradox: Fast Alone, or Far Together?

The Solopreneurship Paradox: Fast Alone, or Far Together?

Aiden Fishbein
Business, Lessons, Lifestyle

"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."

This African proverb encapsulates a paradox every entrepreneur eventually confronts: the allure of solopreneurship versus the power of partnership and teamwork. Each path has distinct advantages, and choosing between them requires self-awareness, clarity of purpose, and honest reflection on personal goals and temperament.

As a creative entrepreneur, I've experienced both sides of this paradox intimately. Flying solo, I've moved quickly, pivoting without meetings, debates, or compromise. My calendar has been entirely mine, allowing rapid experimentation and swift decision-making. The solopreneurship route is undeniably appealing when you crave autonomy, speed, and the flexibility to constantly reinvent yourself.

New Tides, New Adventures

New Tides, New Adventures

Aiden Fishbein
Lifestyle, Tangents, Lessons

I got married last week in Puerto Rico. I also just got off a seven-day honeymoon cruise sailing around the Lesser Antilles.

But a week before all this, I was informed that my cush two-day per week position at a creative agency was being phased out. It was actually more like a heartfelt request to come back full-time, or else move on, which was equal parts flattering and frustrating. One thing it wasn’t was confusing. As soon as the ultimatum was thrown down, I knew my decision: I was outta there.

Sleep Aid

Sleep Aid

Aiden Fishbein
Lessons, Vignettes

The phone alarm blasted into my brain like a jackhammer-tipped freight train. Out of context the chime could be described as sweet, even soothing, but the tone had been corrupted and now elicited only fury. I swung my legs out from under the cozy covers and fumbled my toes around to find my slippers. On they went. My first moment of triumph in the last four hours. It was eight o’ clock, I had been awake since four, and this was not normal.

Wet Green Glory – A Daydream

Wet Green Glory – A Daydream

Aiden Fishbein
Vignettes, Lessons, Tangents

The hill sloped steeply down from the mountain. Sharp black crags faded to green as the meadow ate its way up the foothills. The story is the same as far as the eye can see – emerald valley marching into the blue-grey haze of atmosphere with its river spine snaking chasing the horizon.

This is Ireland, he says quietly to no one. This was a good idea.

Wanted: Blood, Sweat, and Tears

Wanted: Blood, Sweat, and Tears

Aiden Fishbein
Lessons, Vignettes

There’s just something about working with your hands.

Especially when you’ve been too long working with your fingers.

When day in day out you’ve been tip tapping away on screens and keyboards, it is a soulfully welcome departure to do a bit of carpentry or construction (or destruction for that matter).

Hammers and saws and sanders and stain. I’ll be damned if I ever go desking again.

Conversations with a Mystery Musician

Conversations with a Mystery Musician

Aiden Fishbein
Vignettes, Lessons

I met (name) yesterday.

Fluting around on the NW side.

He passed by and I said “Hey, that’s beautiful.”

He said “Thanks.”

It was only after he walked around the corner at the end of the block that I’d remembered a little snippet from Rick Rubin’s interview on the Broken Record Podcast: “Yea, I’ve just been really wanting to soothe people with my instrumental music, so these days I often go to the park and flute around.”

Goodness, that was (name) that just walked by…

First Fruits

First Fruits

Aiden Fishbein
Lifestyle, Lessons

The 2nd espresso hits the bottom of your belly like Molotov, exploding fire into your spirit and whipping energy up your spine.

“I’m ready!”

But ready for what?

“Ready to give my gift to the world, of course!”

But which gift? And more importantly, which world?

To whom shall you bequeath your first fruits?

Choose carefully, for this is how you build your life…

3 Counterintuitive Meditation Tips for the Busy-Minded

3 Counterintuitive Meditation Tips for the Busy-Minded

Aiden Fishbein
Tangents, Lessons

"Let the battle begin." I think to myself as I adjust my ass on the cushion.

"Breathe in for a count of 1, 2, 3...and exhale, 1, 2, 3..." The disembodied voice soothes at us. "Notice the muscles in your face. Notice your brow, your eyes, your jaw...and allow all tension to melt away...1, 2, 3..."

"Melt" I think. "Cheese" I think. "Chuck E. Cheese" I think. "Man, what a terrible job that would be, to have to sit in a sweaty rat suit all day while kids run around punching and kicking you in your sensitive rat-parts...".

"Darn it! Back to the goddamn breath...1, 2, 3"

My adversary has made his first move.

Big Fishbein, Small Pond - The Law of Averages & The Key to Happiness

Big Fishbein, Small Pond - The Law of Averages & The Key to Happiness

Aiden Fishbein
Lessons, Lifestyle

Most folks are possessed by one of two fears:

#1 - "I'm not doing enough, not dreaming big enough. I'm lazy and will never really achieve the thing in life that will truly fulfill."

#2 - "I'm too ambitious, I dream too big. I'm afraid that my eyes are always so focused on the future milestones I'm missing out on the joys of the present...and upon my death bed I'll realize in horror the life I could've lived.

I am unfortunately afflicted with both.

Mayhaps not so unfortunate...but before I spoil the ending, allow me to begin at the beginning.

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